On June 4, 2009 clear Nini five year old of 3 dayCouple of days ago led Nini to go to seam Shan Zhen to play, (ceramic tile which Nini likes playing nearby the green botanical zone on to repair the pitch which above builds, very smooth), Nini calls it to slide the slide. Nini is playing the slippery slide, I and Nini father in not far away rest. By now, a grandfather led two granddaughters to come, big ten years old, about small two years old. Six such pitches, but this master grandson three are bent on having on Nini this to play (possibly, because Nini scratches very much this slide cleanly, but other dirty). I think Nini many playmates, but also plays happily! Who knows, that three person leaning successor occupies. That big spot girl has sat in slide's entrance that place, waits for her grandfather to hug the little girl to slide comes up again only then gets up. When Nini comes up, she does not prefer very much appearance. Nini does not have the means that on half, toward slide from among. That girl said unexpectedly: You make way! Nini is obedient very much,（Related Articleskids sleeping bag Graciousness can add the formula sheep powdered milk nutrition to optimize the new）, stands on one side obediently. Does for mother,kids clothing wholesale, saw this kind of situation is very at heart uncomfortable. Also has the similar situation, has Nini to swing, Nini stands in the side on lining up and so on, who knew has the child who and Nini the age was similar saying:You make way! Nini obediently makes way.These matters let me think that I the education had problems to the child? Somewhat violates child's will in raise child's process to let the matter which the child accepts, only then creates the child now like this: Although she does not want at heart,baby boutique, may force itself to accept firmly, cannot protect own legitimate rights and interests.This question has couple of days ago been stranded around me, is should let the child argue strongly based on reason, lets the child tolerated (before me let many which child tolerated, has violated child's will). I remember between the adult, if goes shopping some people to join a production team, for the behind person their legitimate rights and interests will go to say will join a production team the human, said that will be urges on to this kind of bad style one kind. If everybody did not say,kids shoes, can only encourage this kind of bad style! Between country and country, if which country is weak, exercises forbearance constantly, will be bullied by other countries, the Qing Dynasty last stage will be a very good example.Will exercise forbearance only will let the child will become constantly weak, I will want the child am I certainly must strive for, I must teach the daughter not saying that will maintain own legitimate rights and interests.